After 200 daily posts, I missed a day yesterday because I forgot to “publish.” I wrote a piece about the Wall Street Journal’s expose’ on Facebook but I didn’t published it because I wanted to proof it one more time. I got so involved with a party Eliot and I hosted last night, that I forgot to check in on WordPress. By the time I remembered, it was past midnight, the time when WordPress takes all of the blog posts for the day and starts blasting them to subscribers.
The topic I wrote about is a very sensitive one, so I wanted to read it a few times. I will publish it on Monday.
Today is all about celebration. Last night Eliot and I hosted a “Freedom To Marry” party at our Miami condo. Jeff Ronci and Juan Talavera, produced, organized, and directed the entire event.
“Freedom To Marry” is all about same sex marriage. Approximately 80 people showed up. Steve Rothaus, the outstanding Gay Issues Writer from the Miami Herald, attended and covered the event. Click here to read it.
Good Morning America’s Sam Champion, and his fiancé, Miami fine-arts photographer, Rubem Robierb, also showed. There is a good chance that Sam and Rubem will use the newly-produced song “Any Once Upon A Time,” at their wedding. Ron Abel and Chuck Steffan debuted the song last night to a cheering crowd.
Other notables in attendance were: Miami International Film Festival executive director Jaie Laplante, South Miami Mayor Philip K. Stoddard, and “Freedom to Marry” Federal Director Jo Ellen Deutsch, who grew up in Miami-Dade County. Her parents were there as well.
Steve recaps the story better than I did so read it here:
To find out more about Freedom to Marry, visit http://www.freedomtomarry.org/nep or
click here.
Please click here to hear Any Once Upon A Time
ANY ONCE UPON A TIME
c. Abel/Steffan Music
Music by Ron Abel
Lyric by Chuck Steffan
Sung by Von Smith
ANY ONCE UPON A TIME CAN START A TALE OR NURSERY RHYME
STORIES PASSED TO YOUNG ONES STILL
OF DICK AND JANE, AND JACK AND JILL
BUT THERE ARE TALES SO SELDOM TOLD
OF SUBJECTS EVERY BIT AS OLD
AND THOSE AFRAID TO SPEAK THE WORD
PREFER THOSE STORIES GO UNHEARD.
NO WONDER WE GROW UP IN DOUBT
NOT KNOWING WHAT OUR LOVE’S ABOUT.
AND CHANGE FOR US WON’T COME UNTIL
DICK LOVES JACK, AND JANE LOVES JILL.
MAYBE THEN THE WORLD WILL SEE
THAT WE DON’T LOVE SO DIFFERENTLY
OUR STORIES SOUND ALIKE IT SEEMS
ALL OF US SHARING THE SAME HOPES AND DREAMS
ANY ONCE UPON A TIME
ANY ONCE UPON A TIME
ANY ONCE UPON A TIME CAN START A TALE OF LOVE LIKE YOURS, LIKE MINE.
THERE ARE THOSE THAT SAY THEY KNOW BETTER
AND THEY’LL TRY TO KEEP US APART
NO ONE CAN SAY WHO WE FALL IN LOVE WITH
THAT’S A MATTER FOR THE HEART.
ANY ONCE UPON A TIME
ANY ONCE UPON A TIME
ANY ONCE UPON A TIME CAN START A TALE OF LOVE LIKE YOURS, LIKE MINE.
ANY ONCE UPON A TIME
ANY ONCE UPON A TIME CAN START A TALE OF LOVE LIKE YOURS, LIKE MINE
LIKE MINE.
Thanks so much for hosting and posting. Love you both! — Jeff & Juan
I’m usually classified as an uber-conservative type, but I see nothing wrong with people having whatever kind of relationships they want. What causes a problem for me is when people in non-traditional relationships or beliefs want to fit us all in the same vanilla box. Like the lady who got all upset about a father/daughter dance and started suing people. Or the people who can’t just be quiet during an invocation, but want to claim their rights have been violated. Or the folks that want to boycott a restaurant that chooses to donate their profits to traditional charities. Whether you’re Baptist or LGBT, equality should not be sameness, but whatever you are, you’ll find bumps in the road that require a creative solution. Every frustration and disappointment can’t be laid at the door of prejudice. I’m about as traditionally normal as you can get, but life aint’ no bowl of cherries.
Kudos on you for your support to your friends. I hope we Americans do find a way to allow personal freedom for everyone without completely destroying tradition.
Hi, Jane. Thanks for your good wishes. One of the beautiful things about traditions is that they can live side by side without diminishing and while even enhancing each other. The Baptism with the briss, the confirmation with the bar mitzvah, the Sweet 16 with the Quinces, Hanukkah with Christmas and with Kwanzaa; Christmas in Tennessee with Christmas in Florida with Christmas in Mexico with Christmas in Russia with Christmas everywhere else in the world; the Jewish wedding with the Hindu wedding with the Muslim wedding with the Irish Catholic wedding with the Italian Catholic wedding with the Polish Catholic wedding with the Southern Baptist wedding with the civil wedding on the courthouse steps. Here’s to traditions, both old and new. Long may they live, side-by-side and in peace!