Did You Miss Me? I Was Planning A Wedding

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After 200 daily posts, I missed a day yesterday because I forgot to “publish.” I wrote a piece about the Wall Street Journal’s expose’ on Facebook but I didn’t published it because I wanted to proof it one more time. I got so involved with a party Eliot and I hosted last night, that I forgot to check in on WordPress. By the time I remembered, it was past midnight, the time when WordPress takes all of the blog posts for the day and starts blasting them to subscribers.

The topic I wrote about is a very sensitive one, so I wanted to read it a few times. I will publish it on Monday.

Today is all about celebration. Last night Eliot and I hosted a “Freedom To Marry” party at our Miami condo. Jeff Ronci and Juan Talavera, produced, organized, and directed the entire event.

“Freedom To Marry” is all about same sex marriage. Approximately 80 people showed up. Steve Rothaus, the outstanding Gay Issues Writer from the Miami Herald, attended and covered the event. Click here to read it.

Good Morning America’s Sam Champion, and his fiancé, Miami fine-arts photographer, Rubem Robierb, also showed. There is a good chance that Sam and Rubem will use the newly-produced song “Any Once Upon A Time,” at their wedding. Ron Abel and Chuck Steffan debuted the song last night to a cheering crowd.

Other notables in attendance were: Miami International Film Festival executive director Jaie Laplante, South Miami Mayor Philip K. Stoddard, and “Freedom to Marry” Federal Director Jo Ellen Deutsch, who grew up in Miami-Dade County. Her parents were there as well.

Steve recaps the story better than I did so read it here:

To find out more about Freedom to Marry, visit http://www.freedomtomarry.org/nep or
click here.

Please click here to hear Any Once Upon A Time

ANY ONCE UPON A TIME
c. Abel/Steffan Music

Music by Ron Abel

Lyric by Chuck Steffan

Sung by Von Smith

ANY ONCE UPON A TIME CAN START A TALE OR NURSERY RHYME

STORIES PASSED TO YOUNG ONES STILL

OF DICK AND JANE, AND JACK AND JILL

BUT THERE ARE TALES SO SELDOM TOLD

OF SUBJECTS EVERY BIT AS OLD

AND THOSE AFRAID TO SPEAK THE WORD

PREFER THOSE STORIES GO UNHEARD.

NO WONDER WE GROW UP IN DOUBT

NOT KNOWING WHAT OUR LOVE’S ABOUT.

AND CHANGE FOR US WON’T COME UNTIL

DICK LOVES JACK, AND JANE LOVES JILL.

MAYBE THEN THE WORLD WILL SEE

THAT WE DON’T LOVE SO DIFFERENTLY

OUR STORIES SOUND ALIKE IT SEEMS

ALL OF US SHARING THE SAME HOPES AND DREAMS

ANY ONCE UPON A TIME

ANY ONCE UPON A TIME

ANY ONCE UPON A TIME CAN START A TALE OF LOVE LIKE YOURS, LIKE MINE.

THERE ARE THOSE THAT SAY THEY KNOW BETTER

AND THEY’LL TRY TO KEEP US APART

NO ONE CAN SAY WHO WE FALL IN LOVE WITH

THAT’S A MATTER FOR THE HEART.

ANY ONCE UPON A TIME

ANY ONCE UPON A TIME

ANY ONCE UPON A TIME CAN START A TALE OF LOVE LIKE YOURS, LIKE MINE.

ANY ONCE UPON A TIME

ANY ONCE UPON A TIME CAN START A TALE OF LOVE LIKE YOURS, LIKE MINE

LIKE MINE.

3 thoughts on “Did You Miss Me? I Was Planning A Wedding

  1. I’m usually classified as an uber-conservative type, but I see nothing wrong with people having whatever kind of relationships they want. What causes a problem for me is when people in non-traditional relationships or beliefs want to fit us all in the same vanilla box. Like the lady who got all upset about a father/daughter dance and started suing people. Or the people who can’t just be quiet during an invocation, but want to claim their rights have been violated. Or the folks that want to boycott a restaurant that chooses to donate their profits to traditional charities. Whether you’re Baptist or LGBT, equality should not be sameness, but whatever you are, you’ll find bumps in the road that require a creative solution. Every frustration and disappointment can’t be laid at the door of prejudice. I’m about as traditionally normal as you can get, but life aint’ no bowl of cherries.

    Kudos on you for your support to your friends. I hope we Americans do find a way to allow personal freedom for everyone without completely destroying tradition.

  2. Hi, Jane. Thanks for your good wishes. One of the beautiful things about traditions is that they can live side by side without diminishing and while even enhancing each other. The Baptism with the briss, the confirmation with the bar mitzvah, the Sweet 16 with the Quinces, Hanukkah with Christmas and with Kwanzaa; Christmas in Tennessee with Christmas in Florida with Christmas in Mexico with Christmas in Russia with Christmas everywhere else in the world; the Jewish wedding with the Hindu wedding with the Muslim wedding with the Irish Catholic wedding with the Italian Catholic wedding with the Polish Catholic wedding with the Southern Baptist wedding with the civil wedding on the courthouse steps. Here’s to traditions, both old and new. Long may they live, side-by-side and in peace!

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