Yes, I am still in Cuba. I get home on Sunday. I prepared this in advance because I wanted to share these signs with you. Most of them came from Facebook and Twitter. One or two of them were posted by Russell Simmons, who now fancies himself as a spiritual leader. I have been collecting these for a few months. For good reason, they each strike a nerve with me. They stay relevant forever.
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Let Your Mouth Do the Typing
As I have mentioned before, I usually do all my writing on my iPhone. That means my right hand is always holding the iPhone with a tight grip. I’m a lefty so I hold the iPhone with my right hand and type with my left. Over the years, I think I have developed some sort of a carpal tunnel in my right arm. Actually, I’m not sure what they would call it.
The other day, my good friend Howard Stark reminded me that I could be using the mic right on the keyboard to dictate copy for DigiDame. I looked at him in amazement. What was he talking about?
I totally forgot, or I just didn’t remember. There is a mic icon on the bottom of the keyboard right next to the space bar. All you have to do is press the mic and start dictating. Your dictation will be spelled out right into the email. Remember to verbally say the punctuation marks when you are dictating or to edit after.
The reason this is so good is that I don’t have to hold my iPhone in my right hand. I need to give my right arm a vacation. I hope the aches and pains will clear up.
I know for a fact that email will take the dictation from the mic. I don’t know if other documents will because I haven’t tried them yet. WordPress, the software program I use for my blog, will not accept the dictation. I figured a way around that. I dictate into an email and then cut-and-paste.
Remember, the mic icon is right next to the space bar. You can’t miss it. Try it. It is so much fun. I could feel my arm getting better already.
Cuba Group at La Gloutonnerie
I am writing this to you on Monday night. It will get posted Tuesday and most of you won’t read it until Wednesday. Eliot and I went out with five members of our Cuba-bound group tonight for dinner before all twenty of us meet at the plane at 6 am Tuesday morning.
This fancy French restaurant in South Beach, Florida, was selected because everyone heard that the food in Cuba is awful. We chowed down.
Several of us admitted that we packed lots of snacks. Eliot packed sixty bars of Medifast, so we are totally covered. I am willing to bet that Eliot and I will love the food. We were also told that no matter how much we dress down, the Cubans will know we are tourists. I am not sure what that means, but I’m planning to wear my typical black and gray attire.
Of course, the discussions at dinner focused on no cell or Internet activity for the next six days. That is not stopping any of us from bringing our gear. Everyone wants their camera rolls with them so they can sneak peeks of their grandchildren and pets. It was also interesting to hear how some folks had loaded their tablets with movies while others had downloaded books to read.
I am not exactly sure when they think we will have any time. The agenda is jam-packed with art hunts, visits to art studios, art lectures, and visits to the homes of artists. The entire tour was put together by an art organization from Provincetown, Massachusetts, affectionally known as P-town.
I plan to take a lot of pictures on my iPhone, so at the first sign of a wireless connection, watch out!
Till then . . .
David Pogue Leaving The New York Times
David Pogue
By the time most of you read this, I will be in Cuba without any Internet or email. Wish me luck. This is the first time ever that I will be disconnected. I may come back with a nervous tick. In any case, I am determined to make this trip and live through the challenge of not communicating with family, friends, or the office. No one will miss me as much as I will miss them.
On top of all this, I learned from friends in the industry, as well as early morning tweets, that David Pogue, the personal tech writer for The New York Times, is leaving the paper to join Yahoo.
This is a major shift for the tech industry. Pogue was the go-to man at The Times for anything you wanted to know about technology. Along with Walt Mossberg and Kara Swisher of AllThingsD, published by the Wall Street Journal, Pogue is iconic for his tech reporting and has a bigger audience/fan club than several other well-known writers combined.
Last month we learned that Mossberg and Swisher will be leaving the Wall Street Journal at the end of the year. The industry is playing checkers with the best tech writers in the United States. While no one will admit it, it all has to do with money. Newspapers are bleeding and tech writers who draw big audiences want to be handsomely compensated.
Yahoo is apparently willing to do that. Yahoo’s CEO, Marissa Mayer, has been romancing Pogue for some time. She is no fool! She is bringing in the stars to make Yahoo the ultimate news source. This is a repeat performance of when she acquired Tumblr. If you want to be the biggest and the best, then hire the talent.
Pogue, who was with The New York Times for 13 years, claims that Yahoo affords him the opportunity to publish columns, blogs, and videos about innovation, the likes of which we have never seen before.
Pogue spells it all out on his personal blog, the one that uses Tumblr of course.
Mazel Tov to all!
Ghost Buster Website
Hotel Exedra where James Gandolfini died.
I rarely think about it, but someone died many years ago in the third bedroom of my New York apartment. Of course, the bedroom at the time belonged to my elderly neighbors. I don’t know exactly what happened, but the wife wasn’t in such a rush to have her deceased husband removed. She slept beside him for a few days.
We lived next door and didn’t see, hear, or smell a thing. The wife moved away soon after. The apartment had a few renters since then, but they didn’t last. When the building went co-op thirty years ago, we bought that apartment plus ours and connected them. Death or no death, I wanted the additional space.
Usually, I would be a little skittish about it, but greed took over. The two apartments together were a New York dream. That wasn’t the case for celebrity chef, Sandra Lee, who abruptly ended her stay in the same Rome hotel room where “Sopranos” star James Gandolfini died suddenly three days earlier. The minute she found out, she fled. The girlfriend of Governor Andrew Cuomo claims she didn’t want any part of the media frenzy — but we imagine we know differently.
Just in case you also are feeling a little uneasy about your current abode, or could swear you have been hearing disturbances for a while, check out DiedInHouse.com.
DiedInHouse.com can tell you if someone once ceased existing within your walls. The site claims to have searched all fifty states for evidence of expiration. It promises something called a “certified report.”
A single search costs $11.99. There is a disclaimer on the site which absolves them of any inaccurate information. I wouldn’t let that dissuade me from using the service. Lawyers always try to protect their clients.
The Fifth Estate Standoff
Julian Assange
If a movie makes me think about its subject matter 24 hours after seeing it, I say that’s an excellent film. The Fifth Estate made me repeatedly think about how news is always being altered in order to please the owners of its publishing empires versus the harm that could come to people and countries if the information is distributed without any filters.
The Fifth Estate is about the controversial whistle-blowing website WikiLeaks and its founder Julian Assange. The critics gave the film a low rating of just one star. Variety said it would barely reach $4 million in its opening weekend and that it’s one of the worst DreamWorks debuts of all time.
Benedict Cumberbatch plays Assange. Reviewers raved about his performance but said the movie itself was a third rate The Social Network or All the President’s Men. The film features Daniel Bruhl as Assange’s right hand guy, and Laura Linney and Stanley Tucci as senior members of the State Department.
Critics also bashed director Bill Condon for producing a “snoozefest.” We saw the movie at 11 pm last night without a thought of Zzzzzzz. Not only were we wide awake watching it, but I couldn’t fall asleep later because my mind was racing thinking about how the digital revolution has impacted us in so many ways.
I am very upset that more people didn’t rush to see this movie opening weekend. Variety’s headline yesterday read, Audiences to Hollywood: We Don’t Care About WikiLeaks. “WikiLeaks founder Julian Assange may be one of the most controversial figures in the world, yet moviegoers don’t seem all that interested.”
What a shame that movie goers would rather pick some fantasy shoot-em-up rather than learn something relevant about their future.
There is no accounting for taste!
Remind Me to Watch It
I can remember the time that I spent hours scouring through TV Guide on Fridays marking off which new and old TV shows I wanted to watch for the week ahead. Then I would make lists so I could map out when I had to be in front of the TV. Most of the time I forgot to check the lists.
Some things never change. I am great at making lists for all of my activities, but rarely refer to them. I must have a “list” phobia of some kind. I guess that is why the DVR was invented.
There are many times, however, that I want to see a TV show when it first airs. I want to be part of the “in crowd” that talks about it the next day. Now I can, without preparing a list. There is a new app that will take care of it.
Called NextGuide, the new app is from Dijit, a San Francisco-based company. Dijit is a service that adds a “Remind Me to Watch It” button to a TV show’s website. Currently Fox, BBC America, and TruTV (formerly Court TV) have the feature.
The first thing you do is download the NextGuide app on your smartphone. Then visit the websites for your favorite shows, click on the button for NextGuide (usually located on the top of the site), and then you will receive reminders via email or on the NextGuide app. You decide which way you want to be reminded when you register. You will be notified 30 minutes before air time.
Don’t worry that your favorite shows are not part of this system. Dozens are being added all the time and new networks are signing contracts now.
NextGuide is a win-win for the networks as well. TV shows need increased audiences and reminders are a good way to boost traffic. I have to go now. I am busy looking for all the “Remind Me to Watch It” buttons.
Martha Stewart Questions Blogger Validity
I fell in love with Martha Stewart, the businesswoman, the moment I met her. I love her even more today after I heard a recent TV interview where she gave her opinion about bloggers.
Not everyone has the nerve to publicly say what’s on their mind. Martha has never been shy. She doesn’t give much merit to bloggers. A blogger is someone like me who shares thoughts about life, current events, hobbies, professions, art, movies, food, fashion, tech, and an endless number of topics. Sometimes CEO’s have blog posts where they update the world about the state of their companies.
Most bloggers do not have any journalism background yet they are quick to offer opinions, reviews, guidance on product and services. Year after year, many bloggers have gained notoriety and business respect. That really bothers Martha. She feels that most of them don’t have skills or training. They just blah, blah all the time without the benefit of a high authority guiding them.
I deal with the top 50 to 100 bloggers in the music, tech, art, politics, beauty, and fashion businesses. Many of them are self-appointed authorities that somehow managed to get a following. They police themselves.
It’s a whole new world out there. Some bloggers are now considered industry celebrities. The Internet has provided a world stage where anyone can have 15 minutes of fame
Now You Can Transfer Money Via Email
Goodbye Western Union, Hello Square Cash. Transferring money used to be one royal pain. Western Union did their best to expedite, but there were so many steps to get this done. I used to cringe if someone asked me to send them some dough. The money wasn’t the problem. It was just a time-consuming assignment.
Now a new service, Square Cash, lets you transfer money with just a few clicks on your computer. Square Cash is an offspring of Square, Inc., the swiping device that allows merchants to accept credit cards on smartphones and tablets.
Square Cash allows you to send up to $2,500 a week to friends and family in several transactions or all at once using debit cards from Visa or MasterCard.
Square Cash is very simple to use. It’s all done by email. The following is Tech Crunch’s explanation of how it works.
“The sender simply emails the person they want to send the money to with the amount of money either in the subject or body of the email and CC’s cash@square.com. If the sender has not already added his or her debit card, then Square will instruct the sender to register a debit card on a web page with just the card number, billing ZIP code and the expiration date. The recipient will immediately get another email from Square telling them that they have received money from the sender with a link to add the recipient’s debit card, billing ZIP, and expiration date.
Once they type in their debit card information, this begins the transfer, which takes one to two business days. We’re told that the recipient has up to 14 days to enter the debit card and receive the money, and the recipient will get reminders every other day via email.”
There are other services that allow you to transfer money, but most tech writers believe this is the easiest to use.
Here are links to: AllthingsD, Tech Crunch, and USA Today with additional pertinent information about Square Cash.
Watch a video that explains it all.
Doc Internet
When Eliot first told me his groin area was swollen, I didn’t hesitate a minute to contact my family doctor. I simply sent Dr. Bruce Yaffe an email repeating what Eliot told me. Within 15 minutes, the good doctor sent an email back saying he wanted to see Eliot immediately. Within two hours Eliot was examined and the verdict was in: a hernia.
I did a Mexican hat dance right on the spot because my imagination had me thinking much worse. Thank goodness for email. I had a direct line to my doctor. Years ago, I waited four days for my doctor to call me back when I had stomach pains. I just couldn’t get him on the phone. The receptionist kept asking me if it was an emergency. It wasn’t, so I just kept on waiting.
Today no one waits. The Internet has trained us all to expect instant gratification. That’s why most of you will be happy to hear about a new Internet service that connects consumers directly to physicians via mobile devices for advice. Now I know a number of you are rolling your eyes because you want to see a doctor face-to-face. To those people I say, there is a time and place for everything. The ability to talk to a doctor in record speed should lead to a general diagnosis and next step precautions. They even provide prescriptions. Weird I know, but this is the direction the world is going.
CNET recently did a story about the telemedicine physicians at American Well, which recently announced a $49 10-minute video chat with doctors online and via mobile phones and tablets in 44 states and Washington, D.C. To better understand how this works and how doctors are able to make diagnoses, be sure to read the story because it spells out legalities, insurances, and how it works.
The American Well app is free and available on the Apple App Store and on Google Play.

















